How to Get Great Recommendation Letters for College — Without the Awkwardness
Asking someone to write a letter about how awesome you are can feel… awkward. But recommendation letters are a big deal in college admissions. They give colleges a glimpse of who you are beyond grades and test scores. Here’s how to make the process smoother, more effective, and a lot less stressful: 1. Pick People Who Really Know You This isn’t a popularity contest. Choose a teacher, counselor, or mentor who knows your journey — someone who’s seen how hard you’ve worked, how you show up for others, or how you’ve grown over time. They’ll be able to write more honestly and powerfully than someone who barely knows your name. Think: “Who could tell a story about me, not just list my achievements?” 2. Ask Early (Really Early) Teachers receive many requests, especially during application season. Give them plenty of time (a month is ideal), and don’t drop a rushed email. If possible, ask in person or send a thoughtful message that shows appreciation. A simple “Would you f...