How to Choose the Right College Essay Story — One That Feels Authentically You

When it comes to writing your college essay, many students feel pressure to impress admissions officers with big achievements or dramatic life events. But here’s a secret: authenticity beats perfection every time. Your college essay isn't about proving you're the best — it's about showing who you are. So, how do you choose a story that’s both powerful and true to you? 🧭 1. Start with Moments, Not Milestones Think about small but meaningful moments — not just trophies or leadership titles. Maybe it was a quiet conversation with your grandmother, a mistake that taught you something big, or a time you stood up for someone. Ask yourself: What’s a moment I often replay in my mind? When did I feel most challenged or most proud of how I handled something? ✍️ 2. Find the “Why” Behind the Story Once you’ve got a few moments in mind, dig deeper. What does this story reveal about your character, values, or growth? Admissions officers aren’t looking for a perfect résum...